Dad & Step-Dad (2024) – Navigating Parenthood’s Absurdities with Laughter and Heart

Two adult men exchange uncomfortable smiles and passive aggressive remarks in front of a 13-year-old boy they are responsible for. Both men, Jim and Dave, are visibly distressed and seeking validation. Jim, the boy’s father, has brought him to a forest home where Dave, the stepdad, awaits. Suzie, who connects the three, will join them later in the weekend.

The setup for the microbudget comedy “Dad & Step-Dad” is simple yet effective, offering consistent laughs and surprising emotional depth. Filmmaker Tynan DeLong expands on his series of short films featuring the same characters, played by the same actors. The movie’s concept draws parallels to the comedic feuding seen in “Step Brothers,” but with a more grounded, mumblecore approach.

In the peaceful surroundings of nature, showcased through serene shots of the surrounding plants and animals, the two men constantly bicker over trivial matters to prove their worth to Branson. However, Branson remains indifferent to their petty and mostly controlled competitiveness. David and Jim, neither of whom embody hypermasculine stereotypes, refrain from physical violence but instead show signs of frustration typical of middle-aged men on the brink of losing their cool. Beneath their polite exteriors, they argue about things like the grill temperature or whose guitar playing style is better for accompanying Branson’s freestyle rapping.

The humor in the film comes from the serious way the characters deliver their lines, completely devoid of irony, and the uncomfortable silence that often follows the most outrageous statements. A discussion about masturbation, where Dave and Jim have wildly different beliefs, becomes an awkward interrogation about Branson’s preferences and the best technique for self-pleasure. Despite the absurdity of these parental dilemmas, they highlight how the men are projecting their own insecurities onto the boy. Ultimately, it’s more about them than it is about Branson.

Dave’s positive attitude and Jim’s remorse add depth to DeLong’s first film, moving it beyond mere comedy into a tale of characters with inner conflicts. “Dad & Step-Dad” stands out for its intellectual and emotional depth, unlike many others that appear shallow. The movie’s DIY approach, with actors doubling as crew, blends seamlessly into the narrative, benefiting from its unique setting and the cast’s chemistry.

Oberbeck’s performance carries a raw honesty that sets it apart, especially given the turmoil in his character’s relationship with Suzie. Burgess’s portrayal leans more towards sketch comedy, creating a contrast that enhances the humor. Both actors, who also co-write and co-edit the film, convey a depth to their bond, hinting at a complex history. Fiddyment’s portrayal of Branson adds thematic depth, suggesting that immaturity can persist into adulthood. DeLong leaves the backstory and future of the characters vague, focusing on this pivotal moment in their relationship, highlighting that maturity doesn’t erase our flaws.

Just like many memorable comedies, “Dad & Step-Dad” offers more than just laughs. Beneath its humor and goofiness lies a truth about human nature. As rivalry turns into genuine friendship, the film explores men’s vulnerabilities without losing its charm. In a moment of connection, Jim asks Dave, ‘What’s it all about, man?’ While there’s no clear answer, the film suggests that parents are just grown-up kids, still figuring out life without a guidebook.

At the end of “Dad & Step-Dad,” the two ordinary dads still face life’s challenges, but now they have each other. Taking care of Branson gives them a reason to stick together and tackle life’s absurdities with silly competitions, offering a light-hearted way to fend off darkness.